“He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit, than he who captures a city.”
~Proverbs 16:32
Anger is an emotion we have all experienced. We have been either angry or felt the anger of someone else. There are times that we are justified in being upset, and then there are other times it is simply the old sinful nature trying to live. We can even start out by being upset for the right reasons yet handle it in ungodly manner. You can be angry, but scripture exhorts us not to sin in our anger.
In all of this before the embers even burst into flame, the godly should be slow to become angry. We do not want to be those who are given to fits of rage but to be temperate in the gentleness of God. This takes more strength than the mighty and is why we need the Holy Spirit’s power and grace. Beloved, may the Spirit remind us how forbearing the Father has been with us. Has not the Lord been patient with you? We can all testify to the kindness and gentleness of God in our lives, even when we did not deserve it. As His people, should we not emulate our Lord in this area?
The only way we can rule our spirits is if we have yielded to the Lordship of Jesus. Only when He rules and reigns in our hearts can emotions and actions be kept in check. If we are angry, we should take it to God in prayer, asking Him how we ought to handle it. It would be good for all of God’s people to reflect upon this verse and question if they are acting in a way that is pleasing to God even when they are angry.
Beloved, how do you handle circumstances when you are upset? Do your words and actions reflect how God deals with you when you have failed Him or disappointed Him? Be careful how you treat others when you are angry, for they are made in the image of God just as you are; and if you are dealing with them in a way that not even the Lord would, you have set yourself above God.
You are blinded by your self-righteousness and think you are right in treating someone in a particular way. It has become your own form of punishment where you have become the judge. We do not often look at our anger towards others this way when it comes to how we treat or speak or do not speak to them. But may we prayerfully consider our moments of anger before the Lord. Are we those who are slow to become angry, and by grace are we in control of our spirits–that is, emotions and attitudes. May the Lord help us all today in being slow to become angry. God’s peace be with you and may His gentleness be evident in you.
In Christ alone.
Pastor Wight
Scripture quotation taken from the NASB. www.lockman.org